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                  The True Wealth of Christmas

The idea of the existence of Christmas is about people, families, traditions, and acceptance and belongingness. It is the time when people can gather together, remember the year, meet people they love, hug and appreciate each other’s presence. But what is Christmas proper is not the nostalgia or the traditions which are so dear to many hearts — it is the fact which lies closer to the very essence of man. In essence, Christmas is the call to embrace a break, to deliberate on aspects that we embrace as the society and share festive happiness of love, care and sharing among us as the people of the world.

Christmas is a Time for Reflection: Celebrating the Journey of the Year

Indeed one of the most impressive features concerning the Christmas time is the times of reflection included in the programme automatically. And in this end of year mood, we are presented with a great opportunity to reflect – to think about what had happened to us, who has accompanied us in those times, and how the changes occurred. It is a time when we are reminded to reflect on our lives and not basically on success and failure but in terms of growth and knowledge.

Appreciating Personal Growth

Life goes on fast and more often, people are busy with various things that they do that they do not even take time to look back and see how far they have come. Reflection done during the Christmas time encourages people to leave the lists of duties and look closer on how the world changes within the past year. Perhaps there exist goals or objectives that have been achieved in difficult circumstances that once thought could not be done or we have developed stronger relationships with people we know.

As we lie down during Christmas and we contemplate, it is not about adding up the outside achievements, no, it’s about honouring the process. They matter because it’s about acknowledging that we have leverage, that we have impact, that we have been triumphant, empathetic, persistent, powerful, kind, or even humorous in the face of adversity. Perhaps we had our doubts at some time but we carried on anyway. Perhaps we did get involved in some endeavours that made us to become wiser. maybe we laughed at happiness nothing to do with our heavy routine; or perhaps in the small things in life that we generally ignore. Such wins are real and are the true indicators of progress, and Christmas is a perfect time to remind people of them.

Receiving Recognition for the Challenges and the Victories

The General and Christmas reflection also make a point to point out that, if there is one thing certain in life, it is that there is always hardship. Thus, for many people, the holiday season can be complicated when there are feelings of happiness and sorrow at the same time, love and grief, or, simply, the desire for something new, when the change is something one has to face. Perhaps this year we faced challenges, whether one has  lost a loved one, or fired from a job or challenged in one way  or  twos that nearly pulled one down.

But in these changes and in these constraints there is also power. Christmas asks us to embrace and celebrate all the feelings that exist in us — the gladness and the grief. By thinking about the struggles, we also provide ourselves with time to recover, and at the same time embrace the memories of those people and moments which brought us strength.

This paradox of joy and sorrow is something that is a part of the essence of what it's like to feel Christmas. It is a season that tells us that life is full of colour and is full of twists and turns and that what makes life worth living is the ability to feel.

The Power of Connection: Finding the balance in Relationships

But at the centre of Christmas is connection which is the core of the celebration. What is more important to note is that the notion associated with the celebration of the holidays is more focused on the bonds that people have. In other words, it is a period of human rejuvenation or even rebirth, a time to be with family and friends – – to recall what is best in all of us and in the society in which we live.

Increasing Relationship with Loved Ones

In a society where people are becoming more and more occupied in their lives than before, Christmas comes timely in that it gives people a chance to devote some of their valuable time to their loved ones. Whether it’s people being together to tell stories before  dinner, laughing together while hanging the Christmas tree or just being side by side during a dinner – it’s moments like that when the holiday is so special.

To a lot of people, Christmas is the only occasion when families whose members are trying to establish themselves in different cities, if not countries, reunite. It is about coming together, being with family to create and enjoy the culture that one individual embraces and being able to create more memories that remain in the family histories for years. They are a way of reminding ourselves, irrespective of the size of the family, that love is a very important aspect in everyone’s life.

However, Christmas also presents an opportunity to enhance relationships with people other than the nuclear family members. It is a perfect opportunity to call and visit friends and relatives who we haven’t met in a long time, to send a nice message to someone we haven’t been in touch with for a while, or simply take time to get to know our neighbours and other people in the community. The simple gesture of linking or simply letting someone know that we are thinking of him or her, caring for him or her or loving him or her is something that is very much precious and can be given to someone who really needs it the most.

Fostering New Relationships

That is why the Christian holiday is not simply a time for reunion of old friends — it is also a time to create new friends. That is; the Christmas festival brings people together mainly in a manner they would not in other days of the year. Modern society, work contacts, friends, neighbours – it is always possible to find someone in a mosque or a church or to become friends with neighbours during preparation for Christmas Eve and celebration of it.

During Christmas there is a spirit of charity – people want to do something good and touching to others, to enclose them in warm hands and light up their eyes with holiday sparkle. This openness leads to the ability to make new friends and further the theme of love and goodwill to new people we meet in our daily lives.

Embracing the Small Moments: When music and decorations soar above pandemonium comes the quiet joy of christmas.

Although there are so many activities and preparations when it comes to the celebration of the holidays, every Christmas has to be simple to enjoy what makes us happy. During the festive period people get so caught up in shopping for gifts, cooking, and arranging parties that they end up not enjoying the season fully.

Key Contributions: This paper aims at identifying the sources of magic in the ordinary hence the following are the key contributions of the paper:

Who would have thought that one could find the splendour and beauty of Christmas in small things? It’s in the scent of pine from the Christmas tree, the crackling sound of a fireplace on a cold night or children playing in the snow. In fact, it is these aspects that form the crux of the holiday and are the ones that offer what are in effect real experiences.

Being a grown-up means people lose sight of the fun, the reality of the season becomes work-oriented and children’s spirits help us remember the fun in Christmas. To them, the holiday is about joy — the joy of waking up on Christmas morning, joy of opening gifts and the sheer joy of being with people one loves.

The Joy of being Present 

Living in a world that delivers more and more, where time is money, and technology dominates most aspects of everybody’s life, Christmas is the time that allows us to take a pause. Now is the best time to shed off the various worries and stresses and direct ourselves towards the things that make us joyful.

Whether we are just having family time, going for a walk in the cold streets, or meditating right in front of the tree, in general, the Christmas period makes us waste no time. With such mindfulness, people are able to experience the real essence of Christmas and the joy that comes with it and the ability to embrace the small things in life and one with those around them.

Generosity of Spirit: Freely Committed And Full of Intention and Love

The concept of Christmas mainly deals with gift giving though the act or spirit of giving during the period has much more meaning than the physical gifts. More significantly, Christmas is the celebration of giving and the act is an embodiment of love, care and consideration.

The following are the aspects of gifts with their meanings:

As consumerism rises to the occasion with increased zeal to find the best gifts to buy, one wonders why special focus on gifts at any given occasion. The gift does not have to cost a lot of money or be expensive, the point is in the motives behind it. Instead of thinking, ‘I’m going to buy this really fancy gift, it’s going to show them how much I care’ it should be the reverse. It may be a doll from the kitchen, a Thank You note card or even a token of care and Christmas is a clear testimony of what the gift is – an expression of love.

However, Christmas is not only about the material presents but also about offering people’s time and attention. It is embedded within the human understanding that other people’s time is invaluable; therefore, diligently paying attention to another person’s stories, being fully present with them, and, therefore, listening attentively is one of the most precious forms of giving.

Spreading Kindness and Compassion

It is also a season of giving — goodwill to one and all including individuals who may require it most. Volunteering, donating or even giving your spare time to help; all of these little things can go a very long way.

The message of Christmas is all about kindness where we get to realise that everyone is connected, and when we volunteer we put smiles on the faces of many while our own lives are also fulfilled. As stated, one of the simplest ways of sharing warmth and light is through being kind and doing so through a smile, gesture, word of encouragement, and so much more.

Christmas: It is time to once again rise up and celebrate our together again and focus on the fact that deep down we are all human beings.

As the loops move closer to the holidays, you can like and not hide the fact that the general mood has become softer, warmer, people’s hearts are tightly connected. Christmas is Christmas in its simplest form and can never be associated with only the festivity associated with gifts. It is a festival of humanity and it is the time when the entire focus is shifted to the positive aspect which is present in everyone and the love that is existing in every individual. In this part of the year, we are encouraged to be tolerant, kind and to appreciate what we have in our lives.

The Yuletide season in particular presents us with an opportunity to take some time off and assess not just the year that had just ended, but the people that are close to us. Our relations – family ties, friendships, friendly encounters with people, etc are what gives meaning and value in the treasures of life. In a world often driven by material pursuits, Christmas serves as a gentle reminder that the most precious gifts we can offer are love, gratitude, and the time we spend with those we cherish.

Accepting the positiveness that exist in each one of us

The essence of Christmas is the faith, which is in every man. This season reminds us and urges us to act in compliance with the art of being kind, compassionate and charitable that is in all of us. As we have seen, hospitality is as basic as gift giving and receiving and tells a lot about the human potential to care for his fellow man.

One of the best known customs of the holiday is gift giving and receiving however the value of the procedure is far beyond the objects. It is by no means a case where we just give something in a physical sense; it is done in order to express our gratitude, love and the effort to reinforce the relations which we have with other people. Each and every carefully selected gift, each and every heartfelt card and each and every good deed during this time of the year is a reflection of the basic nature of human beings.

But Christmas also tells about generosity in other ways as well and is not only about the gifts. It is possible to give time, attention and positive emotions in the form of care and concern. A smile at a stranger, a word of encouragement to someone in the community or a word of comfort to a friend in need, time spent listening to a family member or friend is also a way of giving. And it is through such actions that we help each other and touch the next person’s life with warmth and light that perhaps are more valuable than any present one can give.An outward focused random act of kindness  can  cause the ripple effect 𝑅’ on the people it touches.Indeed, one of the most beautiful aspects of Christmas is that it insists on people paying this kindness forward. This is because people respect the actions made out of love and that will definitely warrant change. Civic engagement — a simple gesture as opening the door for a stranger, assisting a neighbour, or donating some time to a local non-profit organization.Thus, Christmas is the festivity of humanity not because of all the acts of charity people do but due to how these acts affect different communities across the globe. There is good in everyone which, when allowed to thrive will make this world warmer, kinder, with everyone united. That way, we elevate the people around us while also making our own existence more fulfilling.

Accepting the Love and Good Will which exist between us

It is also the time when people can remember the love and loving feelings which keep families and significant others together. In the modern fast-paced largely disconnected society with too many conflicts and disagreement, one can benefit from coming closer to the people they actually know they should be near right now. It means the opportunity to set aside other mundane activities that are part and parcel of our normalcy and engage the people, things as well as situations that make us happy, secure and accepted.

The Joy of Togetherness

In my opinion there is something very special about togetherness that is experienced during the Christmas festivities. Whether it is a family dinner in the kitchen during the holiday, warm gathering with relatives near the fireplace or celebration with friends, the season is full of moments that teach people the value of contact.

Both large and small meetings present an opportunity to build memories which are cherished for a life time. Finding joy in small things, the funny jokes cracked and the jokes shared, the recounting of old stories and just the mere presence of the loved ones are some of the things that make the feel of Christmas last long after the tinsel has been pulled down. Christmas starkly communicates the message that the best things people can give to one another are their presence and concern. In today’s ever so busy world, it is never too often to spend time with our dear ones and there’s no better time to do it than in this wonderful season.

Strengthening Bonds Across Generations

Christmas also presents a good occasion with which the generation of love and unity between generations can be boosted. Again, for many families the holiday season is a common reason folks hold traditions from one age group to the other; and thus are products of cultural heritage. Whether in touch with a beloved recipe for cookies at home, the putting up of the Christmas tree or singing of carols that have been performed for generations, such practices make a person feel rooted in an earlier time, as well as the future.

But Christmas is also a time when people create new traditions. People switch jobs, their children grow up, relationships shift, and so forth During the holiday season, one can adopt different ways of celebrating that are fitting to new dynamics of families. Whether people have a new significant other they’d like to gift during the holidays or parents preparing a gift for children, this is the time when people celebrate love and affection.

Gathering Happiness with Shared Experiences

Holidays, particularly Christmas, is not just a celebration, but also an assorted feeling, not universal, but rather, cross-cultural, cross-community, cross-generational, and personal. Irrespective of when or where it is observed, it is a symbol of people coming together and sharing happiness with no divisions. In its simplest essence, Christmas is the joyous moments that people spend time with each other – and that make people human.

The Universality of Christmas

Possibly one of the most exciting things about Christmas is the fact that it is commemorated by people all over the world. The traditions also may be different from one country to another but the main ideas of the holidays are love, kindness, and generosity. No matter whether it is a family in a small village trying to prepare simple handmade presents on their own, or the great city illuminated by Christmas lights, the essence of Christmas is in the idea of celebrating together with people close to us.

This is a heartening experience that there is nothing as a very large world that cannot be shared, we are all members of one global family. One does not have to be part of a specific group in a specific culture or a specific nationality in order to feel union joy in Christmas. Thus, Christmas turns into an emphasis on humanity, which means people are united by some common values during these holidays.

Everybody loves some quiet reflective time they are given with an opportunity to be grateful.

But at the same time, Christmas also gives time for people to contemplate and think while the rest of the year is only filled with parties and other celebrations. It is a time when people reflect on everything that happened in the year they have been through and are thankful for. But in the hustle and bustle of so many activities, there is hardly any time in appreciating little things in life like the sound of children giggling, a hug from a dear one, a voice which has been missed for so long.Christmas gives people the signal to take some time off and contemplate about the things that they tend to overlook in their daily lives. It is a nice period to express one’s gratitude to the ones who have been helping you, to show that you are grateful for this love, and to realise how wonderful life is. This perspective of gratitude is the essence of Christmas which tells people that life is not all about the physical possessions but, the people, fun memories, and memorable experiences.

Keeping The True Wealth of Christmas: Family Connections, recollections, and occurrences

This is a great message in a world where gaining wealth is considered the most important achievement, Christmas restricts the top priorities. That is where the gifts, decorations and celebrations come in but they themselves are not the essence of the season. In my opinion, the true value of Christmas has nothing to do with the glitter and glamour but with bonding and memories.

Cherishing Time Together

It doesn’t matter how old we are or what kind of relationship we share with the recipient, allowing someone to spend time with us is one of the greatest gifts we can provide during holiday seasons. In an increasingly hectic society, being able to be there one hundred per cent for your partner cannot be valued based on any price. In the setting that includes family and friends, the evening dedicated to sitting down to have a meal together with a loved one, experiencing deep conversation, or just being there with someone who needs us during Christmas is what the Season is made of.

These are the warm moments of people’s lives, which are the basis of many of the most important memories. In two or three years’ time, no one will remember the gifts that were given or how the houses were wrapped but they will cherish the feeling of being with those special people. The funny jokes, the sweet moments and the happenings are the memories that people cherish in their lifetime despite the period of the New Year celebrations.

Creating Lasting Memories

Christmas is all about making precious moments which are treasured for years. Whether it’s children unwrapping their gifts, having a family’ dinner, or having a romantic stroll at night with snow on the side of the streets, holidays’ moments are some of the most precious moments in any year.

These memories are not merely captured in time — they are proof of the love and bond that people around us have and that is what Chrsitmas bring to us. 

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